Welcome home to yourself

Rebuild a life that feels like yours.

You’re here because something inside you is shifting.

Life looks full on the outside, but inside you’re tired in a way that rest doesn’t touch. Somewhere along the way, you cried to a friend asking, “Do I just have to keep doing this until I’m 60?”

This is the beginning of change.

This is the beginning of change.

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I had to find my inner Wonder Woman again

I know what it feels like to lose yourself.

On my desk, I keep pictures of myself as a little girl, all confidence and sass in Wonder Woman Underoos.

I believed I could do anything.

Like so many women, I slowly traded curiosity for expectations: earn the degree, get married, buy a house, have kids, climb the corporate ladder...

I started living my life for other people, forgetting what was important to me.

my wake-up call came at 40

Why this work matters to me

After working with a coach through my own healing journey, I’m driven to help others make it through. Life can be so sweet on the other side.

Throughout my career in talent acquisition, I noticed that my favorite part of the job was helping people navigate the more difficult seasons.

So I decided to become a coach to do this work in a deeper and more direct way.

My book, The Six Tenets of Being Yourself, shares the philosophy that shapes my coaching: six core principles for returning to your authentic self after years of people-pleasing, conditioning, and self-abandonment.

I don’t believe women need to improve or fix themselves. I believe we have the most power when we shed the layers of conditioning and expectations our society places on us.

I don’t believe women need to improve or fix themselves.

I believe we have the most power when we shed the layers of conditioning and expectations our society places on us..

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You'll be in amazing hands.

Hilary is coming from a place of genuine goodness, sincerely wanting to help. She’s great at getting people to open up and talk more about their situation—and knowing how to help.

A few fun things about me:

I'm a third-generation Tampa native.
In the fourth grade I won a speech contest retelling a story about feeding toast to deer in my grandparents’ backyard.
First-generation college graduate.
I’ve visited 26 U.S. states and 15 countries—and call Spain my second home.
I love painting and photography—most of the artwork in my home was created by me.
I have a passion for dancing, especially Latin dance (salsa, cha-cha, merengue and bachata).

There’s beauty in the homecoming

Lots of women lose their spark when they neglect themselves for too long—this tendency is so common—and the reasons behind it are systemic.

I’m passionate about helping you bring your magic back.

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Hilary is a really good listener.

She’s tough, she’s real, she’s vulnerable, and she understands the importance of having a coach in your corner.